How To Speak Attractively To Men

Amy North

Amy North is a women's relationship coach and best-selling author from Vancouver, Canada. Her high-acclaimed programs include "Text Chemistry" and "The Devotion System", both of which have helped thousands of women from around the world find (and keep) the man of their dreams.

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Whoever said that a picture is worth a thousand words must not have known the power of seductive speech.

Why’s that? Because out of all the tools us women possess to make men interested in us, our voice is one of the most overlooked and unused for doing so.

How To Speak Seductively

All too often women think the most effective way to get a guy’s attention is by oozing with sex appeal or using overly forward body language. And while these do work for catching his eye, what really does wonders for attracting men is your voice. In fact, the way you carry it and control your speech are just as, if not more so, effective and efficient than other bodily tricks.

So then, how can you use your voice to attract men? To start, I’ll explain what I mean by “voice,” because as obvious as it may seem, there’s more to it than you may realize. In fact, voice can be broken down into five key parts or factors: tone, structure, dictation, detail and imagery.

Tone

Tone is the attitude and personality you give to your words. The tone you use brings your words to life, and the good news is that you have complete control over it.

Truth be told, the first thing a man notices about your voice is the tone, which is why using the right one is so important if you’re looking to win him over. Just like the wrong tone will send him running for the hills, the right one will have him hanging off your every word.

So, when speaking to a man you’re interested in, be sure to use a light-hearted, upbeat and positive tone. When he gets the impression that you’re an enjoyable person to be around then he’s going to want to see you more often.

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Even if negative or unpleasant topics do come up in conversation — because believe me, they very well could — try to keep a neutral tone and avoid being overly opinionated about touchy topics. This is especially important if you’re just getting to know him.

In the meantime keep in mind that playful tones will show him you’re into him, while more saucy and seductive ones will let him know that you’re looking to turn up the heat between the two of you. This kind of dynamic is something men find irresistibly attractive.

Structure

As it’s name implies, structure is how you control, pace and focus your speech. In a conversation structure is what makes it possible to flow from one thought to the next in a smooth, efficient and sensible way. Those who have mastered this factor know how to steer a conservation in whichever way they so choose, which is why it’s so important to perfect.

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For instance, you can be in charge of a conversation without him even realizing it, which in the long run can actually help you get what you want from the situation. Yes, in some ways it’s arguably the art of manipulation, but for the sake of this post, let’s stick to how structure can boost your odds with a man.

So, in order to keep his attention on you and attraction in full force it’s important that you avoid using filler words that can make you seem less confident or unsure of yourself. Instead speak steady and smoothly, and be sure to enunciate each and every word.

Diction

In it’s most basic form, diction is word choice and what gives your sentences a distinctive “you” signature. Your own flare if you will.

Yes it can be tough to change your diction completely from speaking with one person to the next, but even the slightest variations can have a powerful impact. I mean, you wouldn’t talk to your dream man the same way you would your mother, would you?

When talking to a potential love interest it’s important that you choose your words wisely if you’re looking to attract him. For instance, you can show off your intelligence or passion here in a way that will have him anticipating what’s next, simply by using the right terms and phrases.

Also keep in mind that your word choice can make or break a meaningful conversation, so as the old saying goes, “Think before you speak!”

Details

This is where all the magic happens. The beauty of details is that they can take many forms and create many feelings. In fact, an unpleasant conversation can do a complete 180 by simply adding the right details.

Unfortunately however, this works both ways, which means that a brilliant conversation can crash and burn with the wrong details.

Now, details aren’t just words. Of course, they can be, such as adjectives to bring a story to life or to emphasize a feeling, but in this case, details can also mean accenting certain vowels when you speak or lowering your voice to set the mood for the conversation.

Simply put, details are the little things that make a huge difference, and believe me, they’ll take you far when it comes to attracting men. I mean, who doesn’t enjoy a gifted flirt or talented storyteller? So don’t forget to include details in your speech, it’ll help create intimacy that lasts.

Imagery

This is the force that gives your words power, emotion and meaning. The bits that cause him to remember your voice and the things you say. The images you imprint on his mind.

In a world where text messaging has become a social norm, it’s easy to forget about imagery. If you really want to attract a man though, then it’s important that you don’t skimp out here. Why? Because this imagery is debatably the most important tool in your vocal arsenal.

Now the good news is you don’t have to be a poet to make your words sing, in fact, simply making an effort to choose words that are bold and bright will pay off here. Best of all, when you do it’ll make any man interested in the things you have to say and when that happens, the rest comes easy.

How To Speak Attractively To Men

About Amy North

Amy North is a women's relationship coach and best-selling author from Vancouver, Canada. Her high-acclaimed programs include "Text Chemistry" and "The Devotion System", both of which have helped thousands of women from around the world find (and keep) the man of their dreams.

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